First Guest Blog: Chojze Yang!

It was during a 6th grade early summer history lecture when it happen to me. The classroom was dark, as we watched a slide show of some important historical figure. I, on the other hand was fixated at the boy of my dreams, my crush, my future walk me home after school escort, Zeng. That was his name. He had the shiniest black hair and always wore tshirts with the word “Guess” on it, this was a major sign of cool.

Zeng sat one row over and two seats ahead of where my desk was. I always had a great view. When the slide show began, he gave up, put his head down on his desk, defeated. I wanted so much to run my fingers through his hair and brush it for hours. I watched him fondled his hair, fan himself with his hands, then with his shirt by pulling it back and forth, rapidly away from his chest over and over.

That very action made my legs quiver and tingle. Instinctively, I crossed them. As I watched Zeng, I tangled my legs tighter and tighter with his every move. I felt the excess of my tucked shirt bunching up in my crotch area. Something was happening. The friction of that movement was new and addicting.
I crossed my legs as tight as I could and began to move them as a rhythmic unit. The sensation was overwhelming. I moved faster and faster, automatically my right hand pushed into my crotch, while my left had held onto the desk. I remember feeling an intense burning between my legs only to be relieved moments later by an outburst of pure pleasure. With Zeng as my focus the entire time. In this way, I welcomed my first sexual experience. My first masturbation act. My first orgasm. Of course at the time, I had no idea what I was doing, I was 12. I didn’t really have sex education until a year later and by then, I was already a proficient in masturbating.

Needless to say, I’ve been getting myself off ever since. Whether it be with toys or partners.
Masturbating is criminally underrated. Especially for women. Some of my best orgasms has been a result of this healthy self-sex act. The first step in being a responsible sexually active person is the importance of knowing your own body, what you like and how to get yourself off. Masturbating actually has helped in allowing myself to be more open with my partners. Once you know or have seen how your partner best gets off, it’ll only lead to better intercourse and exploration. And who doesn’t enjoy that!
So dim the lights, grab your favorite accessories and masturbate together.

(Chojze Yang is an incredible lady. She teaches sex education to Hmong youth in Fresno, Ca. She believes in bacon, donuts, self-expression through karaoke, and Lelo sex toys. You can follow her on twitter: @Chojze or email her chojze@gmail.com)